The Perfect Mate

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I’ve been thinking about this for awhile, and this is my list of criteria for the perfect mate. As long as half of these are checked off, that sounds like a decent compromise. Some of the criteria obviously carry more weight than the others, though. I don’t think I’ve ever been physically attracted to a non-smoker. Them’s the breaks.

  • Physically Active / Exercises or plays sports often
  • Has friends & an active social life
  • Well-spoken & interested in having conversations
  • Loves his family
  • Open to / interested in spirituality
  • Wants to help the world, or at least understands that impulse in me
  • Optimistic
  • Musical
  • Dancer
  • Well-read
  • Creates things
  • Avid traveler
  • Aware of the world
  • Not a crazy bleeding heart, but definitely not too conservative
  • Open minded
  • Good listener
  • Can express himself
  • Great kisser
  • Loves Halloween & costumes
  • Plays games; isn’t afraid to nurture his inner child and laugh now and then
  • Can cook
  • Doesn’t say no to adventures
  • Creates adventures
  • Plans dates
  • Drinks wine
  • Watches what I want to watch without bitching or sulking (talking about documentaries, not chick flicks)
  • Seductive / In control
  • Makes me feel feminine
  • Makes me feel safe
  • Enjoys nature, no matter what time of year
  • Likes some of the same music I do (not all, but at least 1/3 so we can go to concerts together)
  • Doesn’t take stupid risks (smoking, drunk driving, criminal activity)
  • SUPPORTIVE. I don’t care if it IS the fifth time I’ve tried to go vegan, it’s your job to have my back and believe that this time is the time.
  • Be the other half of my team.

5 Comments Add yours

  1. Ms. Roberts says:

    Wow, that’s a lot! I am just good with a guy/girl who has the same interests as me!

    1. Anna says:

      These are all my interests 🙂 Most of these are things I find attractive in any potential friend, and many are qualities I see in myself (or wish to cultivate – I can’t cook worth shit, lol!)

      1. Ms. Roberts says:

        I can’t cook either. All my previous boyfriends loved to cook. Isn’t that strange?

      2. Anna says:

        Same here. I look at it as a kind of divine intervention, though. Poor guys have to eat, and they’d starve with me!

      3. Ms. Roberts says:

        Wow, the divine intervened for me like three times because I had three boyfriends who all liked to cook!

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