One exercise in The Artist’s Way asks: “If you had five other lives to live, what would you do in each of them?” It’s an exercise in imagination, but also a way to reconsider if what we’re doing is what we’re supposed to be doing, and if there are any bits of these imagined alter-existences that we can integrate into our here-and-now. So here it goes:

  • A horror writer with an office upstairs in a converted dairy barn. The office window looks toward the main house and a long, winding driveway. There’s a small pond off to the right of the barn window, and I gaze out at it from my desk while plotting. (This is obviously one I’ve thought about a lot.)
  • A medieval archaeologist working on a dig somewhere in Northern England. The mornings are cold and misty, with a thick dew that creeps into my boots on the way from my camper van to the site each morning. I sing on my way to work. It’s hard, with long stretches of boredom, but we’re going to find something, I know it. My colleagues are like family.
  • A backup singer for a rockstar on tour around the world. The show is glamorous, but more about musical proficiency than dancing and pyrotechnics.
  • A National Park Service ranger skilled at search and rescue, preferably working in the Grand Canyon (but hell, anywhere out West would be awesome).
  • A shaman and medium helping the living and the dead through music and nature. I live a mostly solitary life, deep in the woods and up a mountain, with my dogs, a cat, and a magpie that was once convalescing but decided never to leave. People in need always find me, though. I have a healthy fear of what is unknown to most, because I’ve seen so much. But I will always put myself in harm’s way to help my community. It’s my sacred duty.

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I’m Nova

I have no “personal brand.” I’m not a girl boss, I’m not an influencer, and I don’t aspire to be powerful, inspiring, or rich. I probably can’t teach you anything, and there’s a good chance that there’s nothing at all of interest or use to you here. This is just where I come to talk about the random bits and pieces that make up my quiet life as a sober woman in her 40s. I’m engaged to the love of my life, have six (yes, SIX) indoor pets, and spend a lot of time gardening and hunting for thrift treasures. I also study classical voice (I’m a lyric coloratura soprano) and am deeply interested in all things spiritual and paranormal. Right now I’m trying to recover from career burnout and even out my personal energy, but my eventual goal is to become a medium and shamanic healer, using music to remind humans of the things that actually matter: connection, community, and loving all living things as though they were our own children. I may or may not talk about all of these things here (and sometimes all at once). Welcome!